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Is Tinder the best dating app?

07.06.2025 08:41

Is Tinder the best dating app?

The dude just isn’t into sex. But that doesn’t mean he isn’t a good person or has a porn addiction or is gay. Some people just really are not into sex.

Personally I am one of them. In every relationship I’ve ever been in (even in high school, even in young adulthood) the sex is “interesting” for first few months to a year (if that) and then I just become non sexual 🤷🏻‍♀️ It doesn’t mean that I have a porn addiction. It doesn’t mean I’m a lesbian. It legit just means sex is not even in the top 10 of my priorities for a good relationship (meaning, that I do not require sex as a condition of me being happy in a relationship). This seems to be an uncommon feeling though.

Some men are asexual. Some men have naturally low libidos. Some men have medical conditions that erase their libidos. Some men are on medications that erase their libidos. Just like women, there are a multitude of reasons why a man might not be interested in sex. And yes, porn addiction can certainly be one of them.

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There is nothing in this post to suggest porn addiction whatsoever. That’s an assumption you made all by yourself, solely based on your own biases.

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I see from your other comment in this thread that you had a partner who was addicted to porn, which resulted in a dead bedroom. It sucks that you went through that, but you should probably refrain from projecting your own insecurities here.

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Comments like this should be downvoted TBH.

We (non sexual people) do exist and we don’t deserve to be dismissed in society just because we don’t value sex as a necessity in our daily lives.

With all that said, I would say that if you guys are happy otherwise, and the only issue is sex, then please give him some grace and realize that he might just be one of these kinds of people. And he might not know how to say it. Because when we do tell our partners this feeling, it does become an issue. So he might just be trying to hide it.

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I’m honestly so disappointed with this comment section. Most people are telling you that he has a porn addiction, might be gay, is a bad partner etc.

Simply move on and find a partner whose values align more with yours. That’s the key. But don’t be judgmental in the process, you know?